In China, there are three important thing for one woman. One is be born in a good family, Second is marry a good man, Third is have a very filial son/daughter. So in my age, 26 years old, I can’t get back to my Mon’s womb and pray to birth in a good family. And I also have no idea whether I will give birth to a super star children. And so, it seems i need to marry a good man as soon as possible.
Ah~ you may guess that from the title of this page, i might explain something about the “another life style” is the “marriage life”. No~no~no, my word here is totally not relate to the marriage.
In my childhood, I dream to be an artist. It’s seem the artist is always living in a fantasy without thinking about how to cook for lunch or seeing the mean face of the superior. They can paint a world which is not so real to our human being but it seems touch another mysterious world. But when I grows up, life makes me live on an totally different life, it’s not so easy as I need struggle every step in this society. 4 years ago, the first year I begin the work, my salary is 960 RMB/per Month in the 5 star hotel sales department, can you believe that? Yes, it’s real, and I nearly spend all my money when I went back home for the Chinese New Year. I have to get up at 6 am in the morning, and eat as much as possible in the hotel because it’s free. I live in a house which is belong to my relatives, it’s good as it’s in the University. It’s really very hard, and I began to thinking about why I lived such a poor life while so many people can sleep happily and sweetly in 1080-1888 RMB/ROOM/Night. It did make me think a lot and what I insisted to do was to kept on reciting the English word during the low season. I know there must a way to change the life and I want that so much. Though it’s not so distingue reason but I did real want to change the life and then I meet a chance to work in NAVO.
NAVO is a small company, and when I first came here 4 years ago, I even doubted I made awful choice. But the busy work gradually stuffed all my time, I became love the office and feel like it’s my home. I was set free in this field and i’m very much suitable for this. The English department from zero till now has 5 people and stil expand, it’s a good sign that I make a very good choice. But if I’m not good at English or have a full consideration in life, even this chance can’t come to me, I also can’t make it.
For now, I can live a better life in Chengdu and now what I do is just keep on running the same style advernture tour in China. Someone told me that I’m do a very meaningful job and I should be happy and satisfied with that. However, I know that I have already prove my ability to earn a better life, the next thing is to change to another life style. Finally, i back to my Title ” What will you do if you have chance to begin another life style”
So what will you do? Here i share some of the idea in my mind. Imagine you are now in a desert oasis, there has food, you don’t have to worry about how to live. But it just you there, no one else. It’s a disaster for the normal people when you get use to switch the mobile phone and computer and have a cup of coffee and tea in the office. You might cry or curse the fate whicle you still eat the food God favor to you. Then day after day, you seems get use to this simple life, and you may scare the outside life might comes to you. Take it easy, this chance have rare possibility come to you. It’s the same when you get into jail and once let you out, you will lost your direction.
Now above is talking about compulsive matter and you will not take it as a chance. But it’s do real the chance, at least, we can call it possibility of another life style. People always complain about the life they lived and after that, nothing~ so they always say, they have no change to begin another life style. Or if they begin to thing, the precondition is they win the lottery and become a millionaire. Yes, i do have the same day dream but now it fade as I know it’s not possible in China. Here i want to say is, there are many chance that you can begin another life style, it depends on what you will do. So i think the main things here is what will you do but not the ” if you have a chance” . The chance is always depends on what you will do, so please think about whether you want to bring you life good or bad of your favor.
Now i want to back to my childhood dream, that is become an artist . This artist is defined by myself, I will paint what pleausre me. And I believe what i’m doing now will give me many chance to begin another life style which i can’t imaine before, and that’s the the key point. Mysterious world is full of unknow things and I’m very glad to step into that area.
